Arriving
When you leave home to go to university you’ll probably be
feeling really nervous – you’re leaving your friends and family to
go away where you don’t know anyone. But it’s not all grim. Here’s
some things you have to look forward to…
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weeks of fun ahead of you;
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lots of partying;
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the chance to meet lots of new and interesting people;
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living away from home – you can do what you want when you
want;
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you don’t have to answer to your parents;
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you can have your friends over whenever you want;
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you’re about to start the best part of your life!
If you’re moving into halls, your university induction
pack/letter will tell you what day and time to arrive at your new
place. If you’re moving into a rented flat/house, you’ll need to
organise a moving in day with your landlord.
Whatever timeframe you are given to move in, try and arrive
somewhere in the middle – you don’t want to be the first one there
and sit by yourself, but you don’t want to be the last one who
misses out on getting to know everyone.
Wherever it is that you’re moving to, other students will be
moving in at the same time, so take the opportunity to introduce
yourself to people as they pass by – they may be your new
neighbour!
Unpack a few bits to make yourself feel at home. It might be a
bit daunting at first and a few creature comforts will help you
through. While you’re getting things sorted, keep your door open.
This way people will know you’re there and will be more likely to
come and say hello.
It may seem really scary but everyone is in the same boat – away
from home, scared and on their own. So, try and be confident even
if you don’t feel it inside. You’ve got to bite the bullet and just
go for it! Talk to people. Go round and knock on as many doors as
you can. Tell people what room you’re in and ask them to come and
visit you. Chances are they’ll be pleased that you’ve approached
them – everyone wants to make friends.
Once you’re ready it’s probably a good idea to get your
bearings. Find out where the local shop is and where all the main
buildings are. Maybe you could see if your neighbours want to go
with you.